We all get down sometimes, but you don’t have to stay there. You can take charge and make yourself feel better using any of the tools below.
Even just ten minutes can make a difference. Exercise is a natural anti-depressant and also helps with stress, worry, and anxiety.
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Enjoy it. Pay attention to the fresh air, sunshine, birds, foliage.
Maybe combine nature with exercise.
3. Talk to somebody you trust.
(Maybe tell them you don’t want advice, just listening.) Being listened to is a powerful help according to research.
Are you saying negative things to yourself? It can be hard to stop, but you can counter it.
Talk to yourself like a good grandmother or a good uncle; coach yourself. “This won’t last forever.“ “You’ll do better next time.“ “You’re still a good person.” Etc.
5. Ask for help.
Maybe a trusted adult can give you good advice. This is not a weak thing: it takes courage to ask for help. Sometimes a different perspective can shed light on the topic and help you see things from a different angle.
Examples may include crafts, cooking, games/sports, music, nature walks, etc.
You may need to force yourself to do these things, but it will help.
7. Eat something healthy.
Some people feel temporary relief from alcohol or drugs, but they soon have a negative rebound, actually leading to a worse mood.
However; eating healthy foods such as fish, vegetables and fruits really do show to improve mood without negative effects.
8. This last one is the secret one.
Few people know about this one, and some people don’t believe in it. But you can try it for yourself and see:
Rate your mood right now, from one, just fine, to ten, the worst possible.
Write down the number.
Do it again (It helps if you can think of something funny, but that’s not necessary.)
Rate your mood again.
Did you notice a change?
You can do this at the beginning of every day or any time you want to feel better.
Thank you to Michael Carthy and Dr. Doug Puryear for help with writing/editing this article.
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Rachel Wise is the author and founder of Education and Behavior. Rachel created Education and Behavior in 2014 for adults to have an easy way to access research-based information to support children in the areas of learning, behavior, and social-emotional development. As a survivor of abuse, neglect, and bullying, Rachel slipped through the cracks of her school and community. Education and Behavior hopes to play a role in preventing that from happening to other children. Rachel is also the author of Building Confidence and Improving Behavior in Children: A Guide for Parents and Teachers.
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