We all get down sometimes, but you don’t have to stay there. You can take charge and make yourself feel better using any of the tools below.
1. Exercise. It just takes 10 minutes. Exercise is a natural anti-depressant and also helps with stress, worry, and anxiety.
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2. Get outdoors and look around. Enjoy it. Pay attention to the fresh air, sunshine, birds, foliage. Maybe combine with exercise.
3. Talk to somebody you trust. (Maybe tell them you don’t want advice, just listening.) Being listened to is a powerful help.
4. Check your self-talk. Are you saying negative things to yourself? It can be hard to stop, but you can counter it. Talk to yourself like a good grandmother or a good uncle; coach yourself. “This won’t last forever.“ “You’ll do better next time.“ “You’re still a good person.” Etc.
5. Ask for help. Maybe a trusted adult can give you good advice. This is not a weak thing: it takes courage to ask for help. Sometimes a different perspective can shed light on the topic and help you see things from a different angle.
6. Plan to do one thing you enjoy each day for a week (e.g., crafts, cooking, games/sports, music, sightseeing, nature walks). Even better if you do something with a friend or family member. You may need to force yourself to do these things, but it will help.
7. Some people feel temporary relief from alcohol or drugs, but they soon have a negative rebound, actually leading to a worse mood. However; eating healthy foods such as fish, vegetables and fruits really do show to improve mood without negative effects.
8. This is the last one is the secret one. Few people know about this one, and some people don’t believe in it. But you can try it for yourself and see:
Rate your mood right now, from one, just fine, to ten, the worst possible.
Write down the number.
Do it again (It helps if you can think of something funny, but that’s not necessary.)
Rate your mood again.
Did you notice a change?
You can do this at the beginning of every day or any time you want to feel better. (All I need to do is look in the mirror and I have to laugh.)
Thanks to Michael Carthy for editorial help.
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Rachel Wise is a certified school psychologist and licensed behavior specialist with a Master’s Degree in Education. She is also the head author and CEO at educationandbehavior.com, a site for parents, caregivers, educators, counselors, and therapists to find effective, research-based strategies that work for children. Rachel has been working with individuals with academic and behavioral needs for over 20 years and has a passion for making a positive difference in the lives of children and the adults who support them. For Rachel’s top behavioral strategies all in one place, check out her book, Building Confidence and Improving Behavior in Children, a Guide for Parents and Teachers. If you want Rachel to write for your business, offer behavioral or academic consultation, or speak at your facility about research-based strategies that support children, email her at firstname.lastname@example.org.